Discovering Calm Through Shizen

Gentle rhythms. By embracing Shizen, we learn that wellness is not about doing more; it’s about allowing more.

I stumbled across a Japanese word recently that stopped me in my tracks: Shizen. It means “naturalness” or “being in harmony with the flow of life.” The funny thing is, I realized I’ve been searching for this idea without even knowing it had a name.

When I think about Shizen, I picture myself in those rare moments when everything feels just right, sitting outside with a cup of tea, watching the sunlight shift through the trees, and letting the water rush over the stones while I breathe a little more slowly. My level of calmness is not present because I chased it; it is visible because I finally allowed it.

🌊 What Shizen Reminds Us

Here’s what clicked for me: water doesn’t fight with rocks. It just flows around them. That image alone has helped me on days when I feel stuck. Calmness isn’t about controlling every detail; it’s about letting life move and finding your place in the rhythm.

Let’s talk about simplicity. That’s another lesson. Peace doesn’t always look like a perfect spa day. Sometimes it’s five minutes without my phone or stepping into my backyard barefoot.

Nature is the best teacher of all. When I pause long enough to notice it, the sound of rain, the smell of fresh soil, and the way the wind carries leaves remind me that calm is always closer than I think.

🌱 A Little Shizen Practice

Here’s something small you can try:

  • Step outside (or sit by a window if that’s easier).

  • Pick one thing in nature to focus on, maybe the sound of a bird, the way light hits a branch, or clouds drifting by.

  • Match your breathing to that rhythm for a few moments.

No timer. No rules. Just being. That’s Shizen.

I’ll be honest, I often need reminders like this. It’s easy to get caught up in the rush of to-do lists and deadlines. But whenever I remember this word, it feels like an invitation to exhale.

✨ Please remember that calmness doesn’t have to be something we build from scratch. It’s already here, waiting for us to notice it.

At SILWELL-C, that’s what we believe wellness is all about: allowing space, flow, and a natural return to balance.

🌿Learn More About Our Approach to Wellness

Cynthia Skyers-Gordon

Dr. Cynthia Skyers-Gordon, Ed.D. is the founder of SILWELL-C (Staff-Inspired Leadership for Wellness and Calm), a wellness initiative created to empower educators, leaders, and teams to thrive from within. With more than 33 years of experience in early childhood education, from assistant teacher to director to Education Coordinator, Dr. Skyers-Gordon understands the challenges and opportunities staff face each day.

SILWELL-C was born from her belief that true wellness in schools starts with the staff themselves. By providing calm leadership strategies, practical tools, affirmations, and inspiration, SILWELL-C equips educators and leaders to create supportive, balanced environments where both staff and children can flourish.

Through workshops, consultations, and creative resources, Dr. Skyers-Gordon combines her in-depth expertise with a passion for cultivating resilience, connection, and calm in every space. Whether it’s through her upcoming Wellness Toolkit, the JamBel Storybook, or the Free Wellness Hub, she continues to design practical ways for educators and leaders to sustain their own wellness while inspiring others.

At its core, SILWELL-C is more than a program; it’s a movement: a reminder that when staff lead with wellness, schools grow with strength, calm, and confidence.

https://www.silwellc.com
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