The Private Victory List

Written By Cynthia Skyers-Gordon

There are moments in our work where what we give is not always seen, acknowledged, or reflected back to us. In those moments, it becomes easy to question our value.

This is where the Private Victory List becomes essential.

Instead of waiting for recognition, take time to write down three things you handled well this week:
A conversation where you remained calm.
A situation you navigated with clarity.
A moment where you chose integrity over reaction.

These are not small things. These are leadership moments.

Sometimes wellness is not about doing more, it’s about remembering what you’ve already done.

Cynthia Skyers-Gordon

Dr. Cynthia Skyers-Gordon, Ed.D. is the founder of SILWELL-C (Staff-Inspired Leadership for Wellness and Calm), a wellness initiative created to empower educators, leaders, and teams to thrive from within. With more than 33 years of experience in early childhood education, from assistant teacher to director to Education Coordinator, Dr. Skyers-Gordon understands the challenges and opportunities staff face each day.

SILWELL-C was born from her belief that true wellness in schools starts with the staff themselves. By providing calm leadership strategies, practical tools, affirmations, and inspiration, SILWELL-C equips educators and leaders to create supportive, balanced environments where both staff and children can flourish.

Through workshops, consultations, and creative resources, Dr. Skyers-Gordon combines her in-depth expertise with a passion for cultivating resilience, connection, and calm in every space. Whether it’s through her upcoming Wellness Toolkit, the JamBel Storybook, or the Free Wellness Hub, she continues to design practical ways for educators and leaders to sustain their own wellness while inspiring others.

At its core, SILWELL-C is more than a program; it’s a movement: a reminder that when staff lead with wellness, schools grow with strength, calm, and confidence.

https://www.silwellc.com
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