Toxic Workplace!

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Author

Mitchell Kusy and Elizabeth Holloway

Subtitle

Managing Toxic Personalities and Their Systems of Power

Quick Facts

  • Authors: Mitchell Kusy and Elizabeth Holloway

  • Genre: Workplace Culture, Leadership, Organizational Behavior, Conflict Management

  • Published: 2009

  • Best For: Leaders, employees, educators, administrators, HR professionals, wellness advocates, and anyone navigating an unhealthy workplace culture

  • Core Themes: Toxic behavior, workplace culture, leadership, incivility, bullying, team sabotage, organizational systems, respectful engagement

The book examines behaviors including shaming, passive hostility, team sabotage, abuse of authority, and other forms of workplace toxicity. Importantly, the authors don't look only at the difficult individual—they examine the organizational systems that allow those behaviors to survive and spread.

What It's About

Sometimes we describe a workplace as toxic and immediately focus on one person.

The difficult coworker.

The controlling supervisor.

The leader who tears people down.

But Toxic Workplace! asks us to look beyond the individual.

Kusy and Holloway explore how toxic personalities affect the people around them, but they also examine something just as important: the systems that allow toxic behavior to continue.

Because harmful workplace behavior doesn't exist in isolation.

It can grow when people are afraid to speak up. It can continue when leaders look the other way. It can become normalized when inappropriate behavior repeatedly goes unaddressed. And eventually, what began with one person's behavior can affect an entire team's energy, trust, morale, and sense of well-being.

That is what makes this book different from simply learning how to “deal with difficult people.”

It asks organizations to consider:

What are we allowing to become normal here?

Why We Recommend It

At SILWELL-C, we believe healthy workplace culture requires more than asking employees to learn how to cope with unhealthy behavior.

This book encourages readers to:

  • Recognize behaviors that can damage workplace culture

  • Understand how toxicity can spread beyond one individual

  • Examine the role organizational systems play in allowing harmful behavior to continue

  • Recognize the impact toxic behavior can have on teams and individual well-being

  • Consider how leaders can create stronger norms around respect and accountability

  • Move toward workplaces built around what the authors describe as respectful engagement

Sometimes the problem isn't simply that a toxic person exists.

The bigger problem is what happens when an organization continually makes room for the behavior.

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Pair It With

🌿 Pair it with:The Burnout Challenge by Christina Maslach and Michael P. Leiter

Toxic Workplace! helps readers recognize damaging behaviors and the organizational systems that can sustain them, while The Burnout Challenge examines workplace conditions that contribute to burnout.

Together, they shift an important question from:

“What's wrong with the employee?”

to:

“What's happening in the environment?”

SILWELL-C Reflection Prompt

“What behaviors have we become so accustomed to in our workplace that we no longer stop to ask whether they should be acceptable?”

Cynthia Skyers-Gordon

Dr. Cynthia Skyers-Gordon, Ed.D. is the founder of SILWELL-C (Staff-Inspired Leadership for Wellness and Calm), a wellness initiative created to empower educators, leaders, and teams to thrive from within. With more than 33 years of experience in early childhood education, from assistant teacher to director to Education Coordinator, Dr. Skyers-Gordon understands the challenges and opportunities staff face each day.

SILWELL-C was born from her belief that true wellness in schools starts with the staff themselves. By providing calm leadership strategies, practical tools, affirmations, and inspiration, SILWELL-C equips educators and leaders to create supportive, balanced environments where both staff and children can flourish.

Through workshops, consultations, and creative resources, Dr. Skyers-Gordon combines her in-depth expertise with a passion for cultivating resilience, connection, and calm in every space. Whether it’s through her upcoming Wellness Toolkit, the JamBel Storybook, or the Free Wellness Hub, she continues to design practical ways for educators and leaders to sustain their own wellness while inspiring others.

At its core, SILWELL-C is more than a program; it’s a movement: a reminder that when staff lead with wellness, schools grow with strength, calm, and confidence.

https://www.silwellc.com
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